The third key is about infinite possibilities, but infinite
can be overwhelming and scary. There have been many studies done on how too
many choices can confuse us and lead to paralysis. This is a problem in today’s
world where many, many choices are pushed in front of us everyday.
We humans also have a great deal of fear around change and
choice. We are afraid of failure and afraid of success at the same time, therefore we
stay stuck in situations that can be unhealthy, difficult or simply less than
what we envisioned life would be. We settle. We choose the thing we know, over
the unknown, daily.
Looking at infinite possibilities, in light of all this history and fear, can make you turn around and run. But for a moment, muster
your courage and sit with the idea for a moment. Infinite Possibilities! Push
the pause button on your fears and confusion and dream with me for a few moments.
Dream about the way life could be, the way you could be. Remember back to the
idealistic notions you had as a child or the more sophisticated ideas of your
young adult years. Allow yourself to imagine a world that is loving and kind,
healthy and happy, abundant and equitable. See yourself in that world. See your
spouse, your children, your whole family in that world. Think about the world you
could create, the life you could live, the things you could change if you
weren’t afraid of failing or succeeding. Imagine yourself brave and open to
wonders and luck and health and magic. You don’t have to commit yourself this
second, just imagine it.
Once you have allowed yourself to see images and ideas swirl
around in your conscious mind, just for one more moment, imagine that you are
walking and talking in those pictures, in those scenes, in that world. Are you
frightened? Are you okay? Are you happy? Are you still you?
There are many unknowns in the world of infinite
possibilities, but I would argue that the same unknowns lurk behind the façade
of the “safe,” continuum you live in now. Change comes, no matter what. What
that change looks like and how you deal with it is up to you. Trying to keep change
and possibilities at bay in order to feel in control and safe is like trying to
hold back the waves of the ocean with a small piece of wood. Better to jump on board and ride the waves.
Take time to image the possibilities. Those things you can imagine, it is in the imagining and then choosing and
effort that you become the person you wish to be and create the world you want
to live in. It is the effort, the decision; the commitment to try, that changes
you and everything around you. This is a life of possibilities.
The nature of the universe is infinite possibilities. Align
yourself with it, gather courage, and
make those choices that will put you on the path toward those dreams! Jump on
top of that piece of wood and ride the wave of change in the direction you
choose. There is a famous speech by Franklin D. Roosevelt that comes to mind:
"It is not the
critic who counts: not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or
where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man
who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood,
who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, because
there is no effort without error or shortcoming, but who knows the great
enthusiasms, the great devotions, who spends himself for a worthy cause; who,
at the best, knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement, and who, at
the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his
place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory
nor defeat."
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